Three cups of cold tea

I’ve been watching with sadness the controversy surrounding Greg Mortenson and the nonprofit he heads up.  I think it’s made my heart so heavy because I just read “Three Cups of Tea” which tells the story of how he got started.  I was very moved by the story and even wondering how I could help.  Then I started seeing news stories online about how money isn’t being used wisely, etc.  I hate it when any nonprofit has to face these kinds of situations.

Whether you believe in the allegations being made about Greg or not, it doesn’t really matter – the damage is done.  Lots of people will hear the accusations and believe them instead of digging in to find out what the real story is (by the way, the accusations never tell the whole truth).

There’s a HUGE lesson here for everyone.  Do EVERYTHING you can to protect your nonprofit’s reputation.  I’ve always said that your reputation is about all you have.  Once it’s damaged, it takes a lot of time and energy to repair.  Once it’s damaged, it makes a big impact on whether the community wants to continue to support you or not.  Once it’s damaged, fundraising gets a lot harder.

How do you protect your reputation?  Be trustworthy and honest and ethical. Be a good steward of the gifts donors have given.  Be willing to share your financial reports with anyone who wants to see them.  ALWAYS build trust with donors and the community.

Nonprofit leaders who don’t pay attention to this or gets complacent thinking “that will never happen to us” are asleep at the wheel and put their nonprofit’s reputation on the line.

It’s time to wake up! One person grumbling about how your nonprofit handles money can be the start of an avalanche you don’t want to be in. 

Put your picture on the piano

piano pics

I was at a fundraising committee meeting recently and we were talking about growing the organization’s donor base. This is a common goal for nonprofit organizations, right?  Well, I’m always delighted when folks who don’t have formal fundraising training get it, as happened that day.

As we were talking about strategies for growing the donor base, we talked about how minimizing the loss of donors would help increase our overall number of active donors.  That’s when one sweet man said “we need to put our picture on their piano.”  We giggled immediately knowing what he meant.

I remember when I was little, my Grandma had lots of photos of family and friends on her beautiful upright piano.  That was her way of keeping them close and remembering them often.  The suggestion of putting our picture on the donor’s piano was a perfect way to describe the importance we need to put on relationships with our donors.  Our donors are so much more to us than just the check they write.  Their gift is a vote of confidence in the work our organization is doing.  It’s their way of saying they support what we’re doing and they want to see us succeed.  They, too, want to see the change we’re after in the world.

And that kind of support deserves our attention and respect.  Maybe we should put their picture on our piano, too.

What happens when you do what you’ve always done?

Work rhythms are common. We all fall into ways of doing things that serve us in some way. We host the same special event each year or we submit the same grant application each year. It works for a while, but then attendance starts to drop off or our grant is no longer funded. But it’s a good idea to evaluate your work habits periodically to make sure they still work.

I was talking with a client yesterday and she was telling me about someone in her organization who has become a problem child. Every time others talk about changing things or trying something new, this woman says “that’s not the way we do it.” She’s not willing to hear a new idea. She’s so stuck in the old ways of doing things that she’s starting to impede the progress of the organization. In fact, she clings so tightly to the old ways, that she’s gotten quite negative with others and has lost sight of the mission of the organization. Others are now avoiding interaction with her because of her negativity. It’s become “me vs. them” and she’s determined to win.

I can remember working with a couple of people just like this. In one case, I came back from a conference with new ideas ready to implement, and she did her best to discredit me and squash my enthusiasm. I never could understand why she was so negative, unless she was terrified of change. Either that or she wanted to be the “Star of the Show” and I was stealing her limelight. Either way it was holding the nonprofit back from doing bigger and better things.

So, back to my original question. What happens when you do what you’ve always done? You get what you always got.

If you aren’t happy with the fundraising results (or any results for that matter) you’re getting, then you MUST change what you’re doing. Simple as that.

You have to find a way to get these negative folks on board with moving forward, or they need to be let go. I know that’s harsh, but it’s true. You have way too much important work to do in the world to be held back by someone who has their own agenda.

Have you had experience working with negative people in your nonprofit who were reluctant to change? I’d love to hear your story. Click on the comment link and share.