Does your Coach have a Coach?

Coaching is catching on faster and faster in the nonprofit world.

Coaching provides a unique form of support.  It’s deeper than a seminar and more personal that a consultant.  And it’s not a one-shot deal.  A coach gives you someone to work with over a period of time and someone you can count on.

Many major companies have embraced executive coaching as a great form of professional development.  It’s viewed as a way to support top producers.  For the Nonprofit Professional, knee-deep in work and starved for resources, hiring a Coach can be a tremendous investment. When you enhance your skill set, time management, and confidence, it ripples through the organization.

But before you hire someone to be your coach, ask them if they have a coach.

If you’re going to invest in yourself in this very personal way, make sure that your coach is also investing in themselves. You want someone who walks their talk and who can being their best ‘A’ game to support you.

Personally, I have several coaches and mentors.  I learn different things from different ones.  This year, I decided to invest in some expensive, high-end coaching and it’s been a wild ride!  The simple decision to do it shifted my thinking and how I look at things.  With the help of my coach, I’ve been able to plan bigger than ever before, and work toward making those plans a reality.  I don’t think I could have accomplished so much without her.

I’m already thinking about who will coach me in 2011.  Are you?  If you’re thinking about having support next year, I’m working on a hybrid coaching/consulting program that will absolutely take your fundraising program to the next level.  There will be LOTS of cool stuff in this program, including retreats, attending the AFP conference in Chicago (I’m paying for you to go!) and learning activities with horses.  If you’re interested, shoot me an email at sandy@sandyrees.com and I’ll send you an application.

Coaching is effective for people who want to make change but aren’t sure how to do it. If you want to make some changes in your nonprofit organization, think about starting with a coach.

When can you stop learning?

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I’m a big believer in continuing education.  I encourage my students to take advantage of learning opportunities, and like a good coach, I practice what I preach.learning experience

Last week, I went to a 3-hour seminar with a group of my friends.  And it stretched my thinking.  Actually, I’m still processing some of the material nearly a week later.

Four of us piled into the car and drove from Knoxville to Atlanta.  We chatted nonstop on the way down about our challenges.  We shared our goals and supported each other to dream bigger. (Isn’t it great to have people like that in your life?  People you can openly share with and know they’ll give you the honest truth?)

Personally, I had a couple of big “aha” moments that afternoon.  I got really clear that I have some big dreams about the impact I want to make on the world. I saw how BIG my dreams are. I also saw that I have some work to do to make it happen.  And I’m ready!

How about you? Are you working to improve yourself and your skills so that you can reach your dreams?  Or are you “playing it safe” and staying with what’s comfortable for you?

I’d love to hear what you think.  Hit the comment link and share.

The 7 Deadly Sins of Organizational Leadership Communication

Today’s post comes from Skip Weisman of Weisman Success Resources, Inc.   Skip helps business leaders create “Champion Organizations” with improved personnel, productivity and profits.

During a lunch meeting with a new client I learned he was becoming increasingly frustrated with senior team members and frontline employees who:

  • Were not taking responsibility for their jobs
  • Needed constant prodding to get things done
  • Were not responsive to client requests and phone messages
  • Were throwing their fellow employees “under the bus”
  • Were having shouting matches in the office
  • Procrastinated on business opportunities
  • Were showing up late or leaving early with no explanation
  • Had negative attitudes
  • Were not producing results

My project began searching for the underlying cause of these issues through interviews, focus groups and observation. Through this research it was learned that my client was violating virtually every leadership communication mistake.

To simplify the project I categorized them into “The 7 Deadly Sins of Organizational Leadership Communication.”

These behaviors had caused significant damage to my client’s business, estimated at about $5 million over 10 years:

  • Communication Sin #1: Lack of Specificity
    This causes people to mind-read or guess as to what is being requested. Details are left out or are ambiguous. The recipient fails to ask for more specifics and has to figure it out on their own.

  • Communication Sin #2: Lack of Focus on Desirable Behaviors
    People are great at saying what they don’t want or don’t want others to do, but have trouble identifying the preferred desirable behaviors. Where your focus goes, grows, so people are getting more of what they don’t want because they continue to focus on it.

  • Communication Sin #3: Lack of Directness
    This is where people gossip behind the backs of co-workers, peers, bosses and subordinates. Another example is the leader who calls a team meeting and offers a blanket directive to fix a problem better addressed to one offending individual. A third is when an employee tells a manager the mistakes of co-worker hoping to make themselves look good.

  • Communication Sin #4: Lack of Immediacy
    This is procrastination. This is when communication is avoided because the conversations are difficult and leaders don’t know how to approach the offending party, so they tolerate poor behavior.

  • Communication Sin #5: Lack of Appropriate Tone
    Ever had someone in a professional setting raise his or her voice at you in a condescending or threatening manner? How about responding in a sarcastic manner? These are just two ways inappropriate tone ruins company cultures.

  • Communication Sin #6: Lack of Focused Attention
    In this day of technology and multi-tasking too many office conversations occur passing in the hallway, while one person is checking/responding to e-mails, or talking while on hold.

  • Communication Sin #7: Lack of Respectful Rebuttals
    This may be the most common, yet subconscious of all leadership communication sins. It’s the conversations when someone agrees or provides positive feedback in the first part of their sentence, only to be followed by “but.” After the “but” comes the other shoe and you end up feeling misled and unfulfilled.

These seven leadership communication habits cause significant damage to an organization’s culture, including low employee morale, motivation and productivity. Long-term toleration of these communication styles creates a low-trust, highly toxic work environment.

The best organizations develop an environment where leaders and their teams agree to communicate at a high level and hold each other accountable to overcoming these communication challenges.

To learn how to fix organizational leadership communication problems like these download a free white paper at www.HowToImproveOrganizationalCommunication.com.

Skip Weisman of Weisman Success Resources, Inc. of Poughkeepsie, NY helps business leaders create “Champion Organizations” with improved personnel, productivity and profits. He can be reached at 845-463-3838.  His latest White Paper is “The 7 Deadly Sins of Organizational Leadership Communication” available free at www.HowToImproveOrganizationalCommunication.com.

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